A new research conducted by Victoria University into penis size and body image has discovered that size does matter to men, but chiefly in relation to how they shape up compared with other men.

According to the researchers, “Men are more concerned about how their overall body size compares to the perceived male ideal than they are about how their size might impact on their sexual relations.”

The study, which investigated the link between men’s penis size, body image and mental health, found that men who indicated a larger-than-average penis size had higher self esteem, better general health functioning and higher overall body satisfaction than those reporting an average or below-average sized penis. The study also revealed that men who were happy with the size of their penis were less likely to engage in online dating. Interesting…

I know… WTF?
But amazingly the Church is not always anti-sex, anti-gay and anti just about everything else. Nerve magazine has a section called Sex Advice from Pastors and it’s amazingly open-minded.

Quite a lot of women suffer from stomach cramps after sex. The pain can range from mild to pretty severe. The pain can be caused by any number of things, including:

• Energetic sex that involves lots of exercise
• Sexual positions: certain positions can cause the penis to hit against the cervix or uterus, particular if your sexual partner is pretty large. Do this repeatedly and the pain will get worse.
• Ovarian cysts
• Pregnancy: mild cramping after sex is pretty normal if you’re pregnant. If the pain seems intense, see your doctor.
• Chlamydia: while most women don’t experience any symptoms, a few get cramps.

What you can do:
• Change positions for a few weeks, and alternate between deep and shallow penetrative positions thereafter.
• Use kegel exercises to strengthen the muscles.
• Have a warm bath after sex.
• See a doctor if you are worried about cysts.
• Get tested if you’ve had unprotected sex.

Apparently this is what you do…

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It’s not always possible to orgasm every time you have sex. Sadly for the ladies, this is particularly true. However, any woman can increase her orgasmic potential by trying out these ideas:
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The outfits aren’t what you’d expect at the Oscars, but for the adult entertainment industry the AVN Awards are just as important.

Like the Academy Awards, nominated categories include the expected such as best film, best actor and actress, but the AVN’s are a little more inclusive since, when it comes to sex, tastes vary so AVN always has awards for categories such as Best Big Butt Series, Best Double Penetration Sex Scene and even Best Fem-Dom Strap-on Release. Something for everyone…

Click here for the full list of winners.

Theres’s definately in a pun in there, but… on to more serious things!

Dr Lynn Edlen-Nezin co-author of “Great Food, Great Sex: The Three Food Factors for Sexual Fitness” reckons you can eat your way to sexual bliss. Here’s how:
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Some men – and a good few women – are not averse to taking Viagra to give their sex lives a little extra spice even though they don’t really need it. Personally I’ve always been wary of buying prescription drugs over the net, as this can be very dangerous. Here’s a smart alternative. Holland and Barrett have a range of natural products created to enhance your libido. These include Horny Goat Weed (available in male and female varieties) which is believed to naturally improve libido; Damiana Leaves which were originally used by indigenous cultures of Central America to improve libido and stimulate oxygen flow to the genitals to improve potency; and Muira Puama, known as ‘potency wood’ which was used by Brazil’s indigenous tribes as an aphrodisiac, to treat erectile dysfunction and to help maintain an erection.

My ex and I gave these a try. You can read the full HP article here.
Anyone for the Last of the Aphrodisiacs?

OK, now I’m a sucker for surveys and statistics but I’m finding it hard to buy this one. A German survey found that educated women are less likely to be satisfied by sex because they are too busy thinking. According to the survey 62 per cent of women who had completed their education said they frequently had problems achieving orgasm, while only 38 per cent of women without the equivalent of the Leaving Cert had this problems. Uh huh…

The blowjob is a play in three acts – arousal, increasing excitement by finding a rhythm and orgasm. As promised on Red FM’s Victor Barry show, here are some ideas to try. Read the rest of this entry »