5 reasons you’re not having sex
There are five major reasons a couple stops having sex. That’s according to the sex therapist Marty Klein. Here they are:
It’s not fun
If sex is not enjoyable, not wanting it isn’t dysfunctional – it’s sense. Sex can become boring if a couple doesn’t bother with foreplay, gets stuck in a rut or focuses too much on orgasm. Long-term couples also tend to kiss less, which leads to less arousal and less enjoyable sex.
You feel bad
When you’re angry, sad, or hurt, or when you feel guilty, ashamed, or anxious, pleasure can be impossible, and frequent arguments make sex less likely. ...