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  • 04.08.09
    Q&A: Never had a orgasm, will a toy help? Q&A, sextoys | (1)
    Hi Anne ive never had an orgasm. i was thinking about buying a vibrator but i dont even know where to begin there are so many different kinds...any tips on buying one? Hey Yes I think a toy could definitely help as these are designed specifically to help you climax (and take the work out of masturbation). As regards the toy itself, I’d go for a rabbit-style vibrator. There’s a reason why this design has become a standard – those vibrating ears are really good for clitoral stimulation, and clitoral stimulation . There are hundreds of these as well, but I’d recommend the ...
  • 04.08.09
    Q&A: Erection Difficulties with a Condom erections, Q&A | Comments Off
    hi ann, my boyfriend has never had problems in the bedroom but recently we went through a phase of not using condoms, and now we want to go back to using them but every time we do he goes soft. any tips on how we could try to get back into using them? Hi First things first: If you’ve changed brands recently this could be the problem. If not, it’s worth bearing in mind that this is actually a fairly common male problem. The cause is generally psychological – either a man feels he won’t be able to ‘fill’ the condom, or he’s ...
  • 04.03.09
    Q&A: Do girls like anal sex? anal sex, Q&A | (2)
    You’re obviously wise enough to realise that what you see in porn often fails to square with reality, or you wouldn’t have asked the question in the first place. Having said that, yes, some women do really enjoy anal sex as it gives them the feeling of being very “full”. Other women may enjoy anal play but not necessarily be keen on having full anal sex. And some women are not keen at all. You won’t know until you ask. It mightn’t be a bad idea to approach the topic after sex as opposed to beforehand – less pressure. When suggesting ...
  • 03.26.09
    Q&A: Spots on my penis Q&A | (1)
    Q&A: Spots on my penis There are a number of different things that can cause spots on your genitals. Best case scenario its nothing serious. Skin oils can cause little white spots on the penis and these are harmless. Eczema can sometimes appear on the penis as well. The spots could also be papules (small inflamed pimples). Most are not serious, but it’s worth getting it checked out. Some forms of penile cancer can begin this way and some papules may be infectious. Herpes and secondary syphilis cause little ulcers on the penis as well. Bottom line? Go and see a doctor. ...
  • 03.26.09
    New Q&A section Q&A | (6)
    Hi all, I keep getting loads of the same questions on Sexual Speaking (Red FM with the most excellent Victor Barry on Thursdays at 11:15pm) so I thought I’d answer some of them here. If you have any questions, just stick ‘em in the comment box on any subject I’ll get back to you. Anne