Something must be happening out there, but I keep getting asked for blowjob information…Here’s a trick I like to use.

The adventurous girl should try lying on the bed with her head on the edge. The man stands next to the bed and straddles his partner’s head. If the man is very tall, or your bed is very low, you’ll need some pillows to get this right, otherwise it’s murder on the neck.

Once you have the penis in your mouth, you still have two free hands so use them! One hand can be used to stimulate his balls, perineum and ass and the other to play with yourself. This angle is great because it combines two of men’s great loves – watching a woman giving them a blowjob and watching a woman masturbate. It’s a bit tricky at first, so best to use this with a regular partner.

Oh, I’m loving this. Head to iVillage and find the perfect sex position for you and your partner. The options are worked out depending on your energy levels, penis size, flexibility and height. Nifty!

Perfect Position

Every Thursday on Sexually Speaking with the wonderful Mr Victor Barry, I get asked about premature ejaculation and lasting longer. Here’s the information about Kegel exercises and some other ideas to try out. Read the rest of this entry »

Like guys, girls can find their PC muscle by trying to stop peeing mid-stream. Or you can insert a finger inside your vagina and squeeze the muscles. You should feel a tightening sensation.

Exercise 1
In a sitting or standing position, clench your PC muscle. Hold for 5 seconds. Relax for 5 seconds. Repeat 5 times. Work up to clenching the muscles for 10 seconds, taking a 10 second break in between each.
Repeat three times a day.

Exercise 2
Count to 10 (working up to 20). Clench and relax you PC muscle each time you say a number. Repeat 10 times.

You should notice a difference in 8 to 12 weeks.

Don’t practice Kegel exercises with a full bladder or while emptying your bladder. This can weaken the muscles and increase your risk of a urinary tract infection.