A new research conducted by Victoria University into penis size and body image has discovered that size does matter to men, but chiefly in relation to how they shape up compared with other men.
According to the researchers, “Men are more concerned about how their overall body size compares to the perceived male ideal than they are about how their size might impact on their sexual relations.”
The study, which investigated the link between men’s penis size, body image and mental health, found that men who indicated a larger-than-average penis size had higher self esteem, better general health functioning and higher overall body satisfaction than those reporting an average or below-average sized penis. The study also revealed that men who were happy with the size of their penis were less likely to engage in online dating. Interesting…
i have to say, size doesn’t bother me once you get the motion going so to speak, but as a visual thing there is something wow about a guy with a big penis.
Size isn’t an issue for me either, although an extreme lack of it is…
also, the thing i’ve noticed is that there’s a huge difference between how much some guys penises increase in size between not erect and erect, I remember one guy who I thought was going to be *huge* only being average because his penis didn’t get bigger, just firmer.
That’s true, there is less of a difference between the flaccid and erect penis. I guess Mother Nature decided they needed some blood left over so they don’t pass out. It’s something men who compare themselves to others would do well to remember…
also, they should shave or at least trim, you don’t want it getting lost in hair!
Agreed! After all the effort we put in maintaining the bikini line a trim is easy!
well, with some men if you made the clitoris any harder to find the whole thing would be pointless
I know… How hard is it? It’s right there! So annoying when they spend their time almost there, but not quite getting the spot! Worse still, some get upset if you gently direct them.
ok we get the message, shave the area and pay attention to the clitoris. now you go get hollywood waxes - fair deal?
Trimmed pubes = Bikini wax
Back, sack & crack wax = Hollywood wax
Didn’t you do maths at school?
where does a brazilian wax fit?
It depends… there are a couple of ways to achieve a Brazilian…
Trimmed pubes + a love of giving oral sex = Brazilian
A beach holiday = Brazilian
Nude photo shoot = Brazilian
Enough spare cash to visit beautician + great sex regardless of the state of our pubes = regular Brazilians
(includes acceptance that the hair has to grow to a certain length before it can be waxed again and that it ain’t cheap)
right I think i’ve ticked most of those boxes - where do i make the appointment?
also can i be totally honest, I’ve always wondered does a “huge cock” feel very different. I’m mr averagish (6″ long and thickish i reckon). I definitely do look at guys in the gym with a whopper and go Aye Carumba how’d you fit that !!!!
Well, that’s kind of an unanswerable question but…
1. A 2006 study in the Journal of Men and Masculinity found that while 85% of women are happy with their partner’s penis size, 45% of men would like to be bigger.
2. I asked a lot of women for an article I wrote on this topic for HP and almost all said size doesn’t matter.
3. Only about the first 3 inches of the vagina is sensitive. Or we’d never be able to give birth! But stretching this area is pleasurable (that’s why you’d use more than 1 finger when pleasuring a woman this way). In terms of size this should mean that length isn’t important but being thickish should make a difference.
4. I never thought it made a difference until I had a lover who was very, very small - about 4 inches and skinny, skinny. Hmmm… found myself making excuses to avoid sex.
5. The best lovers are creative, think you are beautiful and make you feel totally sexy and wanted. All the ones I remember fondly were like this. Can’t remember anything remarkable either way about their size so presume they must have been average!
I think mentioned this before Anne, but your posts definitely corrupt ones eyes reading. I was on the hotpress.com front page having been on this post and was reading the headline on your esteemed colleague Peter Murphy’s post. It says Gimme Gimme Shock Treatment. I read it as Gimme Gimme Cock Treatment and wondered was Peter Murphy actually bootboy.
My esteemed colleagues Bootboy and Peter are fine specimens of humanity, interesting and intelligent but they are indeed two different people…
you’re forgiven.
one thing you could do in return though is give us site of the week be it sex/porn/dating or whatever - how’s about that for a trade?
i thought we had a deal
Oh crap, I’m sorry. Things got a little weird and hectic in the Sexton household.
Jane’s Guide is the best review site I’ve found. They cover just about everything and you kind of get to know the reviewers and what they like. It’s at http://www.janesguide.com.
I wrote a piece for HP about my fave porn sites a while ago. Did you see it? Anyway here are some of them (excluding the stuff aimed exclusively at women:
Beautiful Agony beautifulagony.com)
Delta of Venus www.deltaofvenus.com)
YouPorn www.youporn.com)
XTube www.xtube.com)
VideoBox www.videobox.com)
Fuck for Forest www.fuckforforest.com)
But will add more and sorry about the delay
Must remember to check this again when I’m back home. Probably not a great idea in work!
Probably best…