April 2009

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  • 04.08.09
    Q&A: Never had a orgasm, will a toy help? Q&A, sextoys | (1)
    Hi Anne ive never had an orgasm. i was thinking about buying a vibrator but i dont even know where to begin there are so many different kinds...any tips on buying one? Hey Yes I think a toy could definitely help as these are designed specifically to help you climax (and take the work out of masturbation). As regards the toy itself, I’d go for a rabbit-style vibrator. There’s a reason why this design has become a standard – those vibrating ears are really good for clitoral stimulation, and clitoral stimulation . There are hundreds of these as well, but I’d recommend the ...
  • 04.08.09
    Q&A: Erection Difficulties with a Condom erections, Q&A | Comments Off
    hi ann, my boyfriend has never had problems in the bedroom but recently we went through a phase of not using condoms, and now we want to go back to using them but every time we do he goes soft. any tips on how we could try to get back into using them? Hi First things first: If you’ve changed brands recently this could be the problem. If not, it’s worth bearing in mind that this is actually a fairly common male problem. The cause is generally psychological – either a man feels he won’t be able to ‘fill’ the condom, or he’s ...
  • 04.03.09
    Q&A: Do girls like anal sex? anal sex, Q&A | (2)
    You’re obviously wise enough to realise that what you see in porn often fails to square with reality, or you wouldn’t have asked the question in the first place. Having said that, yes, some women do really enjoy anal sex as it gives them the feeling of being very “full”. Other women may enjoy anal play but not necessarily be keen on having full anal sex. And some women are not keen at all. You won’t know until you ask. It mightn’t be a bad idea to approach the topic after sex as opposed to beforehand – less pressure. When suggesting ...