The Celibate Question
Anyone here ever gone without sex for an extended period of time?
A post under my last entry complaining about doing sex without for two months got me thinking about celibacy. Many years ago I was celibate for almost a year, and not through choice really. It was a combination of various unfortunate circumstances, including a major illness in the family, that caused it. I guess I had other things on my mind…
A few months later when I tried to rectify the problem I seemed to be jinxed. Everyone I went out with revealed their freakish side to me before we’d had a chance to take things further. There was the guy who pulled a knife on me asking to drink my blood; the bizarrely sexist bloke who complained about the evils of feminism all through dinner; the racist who shouted at a homeless black kid who offered to ‘watch’ the car in exchange for some change (homeless kids are a common enough thing in South Africa sadly and watching or washing cars is how they get by); the one who spiked my drink (luckily friends were in the same club and took me home); the one who believed that the lights of a certain club revealed the innermost soul of a person and was fond of Celine Dion! You see my problem… I might have been getting desperate, but not that bloody desperate.
Anyway, that’s my sorry tale. Let here yours…
Hi Ann! That was mise! And its actually more than 2 months! Its hiting 4 months.
I was 53 days on ramand in Cloverhill. Its a big fecking story, I wrote a letter to Jason’O'Toole, and fair play to him I open a letter from him when I got out last Monday. I had asked him would he get yourself to put me in contact with one of your friends. I love your column!
All I could think in Cloverhill / Soberhill, was looking forward to my next shagg! I was in the Gym most days, the Weekly Sport plastered all over the cells. And discussing every grafic details of sex lifes with great friends I met in there.
I sitting on a huge story with a bit of Luck will be in Hotpress January issue! I spent a forture since Monday, hotels, clubs, drinks, gym, this laptop! And Ive still to make sweet sweet love! I try to be discrete since I came out, but sitting in this 4-star hotel (Kip!) I must be the horneys man in Ireland. At this stage I think I’d shagg Maggie Tachcer if she walk in know.
SOS Anne & Hotpress I need sex, passion, romance, a lady. ASAP!
And been totally honest like yourself, if their was lady, I love to see walking into this room, In the Roit Squad uniorm, I designed for the female screws & medics it in Soberhill it would have to be Anne! Don’t mean to sound like a crazy stalker! But my therosione is out the Window!
I was in a Jacaquoise this morning in Belfast, on my own, praying to God, that a lady would jump in!
Fuck the porn! I going into the Belfast night to seek my lady!
God is punishing for something! I kissed, felt, plann to have have sex with real nice ladies, but still my Celebateacy goes on!!! Fuck it tommorow is another day and God Loves a tryer!!!
Hey Martin, sorry the weekend was a disappointment… just gotta keep trying! Good luck and let me know how you get on. Anne
Due to illness, I was out of relationships and had very little sex for several years. Now and again I would visit escorts simply to feel good and alive again. At the moment, I have not had sex for well over a year. I don’t feel like visiting escorts anymore because the sex is not real, and can’t stand the idea of going out night after night for a one-night stand.
I’d rather have sex within a relationship, however short or long it may last. This is incidently quite a change from my free-wheeling sex life of some years ago. As I’m still ill - but getting much better - my libedo is in any case quite low, though I still enjoy regular masturbation. It usually does the job and gives me the chance to wait till Ms. Right/Ms.Half-Right/Ms. Right/Now comes along.
We’d sure make a sorry pair comparing notes over wine!
Thats it I give up. Met loads of ladies loads. Met loads of sound Gay lads. (I’m not Gay, not fucking yet in anyhow) I’m too nice, thats my problem! Who do you think would be the best people to help you out with a Male (mise) Female, Female, threesome??? Your Gay friends(Male!)??? No! They want to turn you Gay!!! Pure fucking Madness!!! I wouldn’t mind but I’m a good looking Bloke!!
But I give up. I staying Celibate by Gods will not my own choice. Must be punishment for the amout of time Ive slagged off priests!!! God moves in mysterious ways!!!! Don’t fuck with him!!! lol!
I’m going into a Hospital to see it I can find a FEMALE Nurse/Doctor to help releive my off the way Theresorone levels!
Well, here’s hoping 2009 in full of sex, romance and happiness…