Pleasure Mapping
One of the great joys of sex is knowing how to give pleasure to your partner. Most of us have a fair idea of what works but if you want to discover all your partner’s erogenous zones and what turns them on, try this exercise recommended by Dr. Kenneth Ray Stubbs, author of Erotic Passions.
Have your partner lie down on his or her back. They should be comfortable and warm enough.
Blindfold them to increase the intensity of sensations.
Beginning at the top, explore every part of his or her body. Use your fingers, nails, hands, mouth, tongue, teeth and breath.
Vary the kind of stimulation and pressure from light to painful.
After each type of stimulation, your partner scores it on a scale from 0 to 3 with 0 meaning it doesn’t do anything special.
This exercise should give you a catalogue of all your partner’s hot spots. Take your time and enjoy it.
Don’t avoid any part of the body! An ex of mine helped me discover I love having my ankles bitten.
Odd, I know but very good and not something I would never have guessed myself.
sounds like a whole lotta fun whether your doing the mapping or being mapped.
exactly…
Most of the fun is trying to figure out what turns on your partner. Some women go weak if you massage their forehead (!), their bum, and feet. Mind you, I’ve found most women just can’t get enough of massage on any part of their body …. hold on, that’s true for me too!
Anytime you need to re-kindle the fire, try it untill its perfected! Use your favorite toys and food, you just may start your own 9 1/2 weeks.