Most Common Sexual Mistakes
Unfortunately none of us are perfect, but there’s no need to compound that fact in the bedroom by committing sexual faux pas. According to a survey done by Clitical, here are the most common mistakes that men and women make in bed.
Women
1. Always covering up
2. Wearing granny pants
3. Poor personal hygiene
4. Lack of sexual confidence
5. Worrying too much about perceived body flaws
6. Using sex, or lack of sex, as a weapon
7. Insensitivity to men’s sexual vulnerability
8. Lack of interest in sex
9. Expecting men to be mind readers
10. Not open or willing to try new things
11. Letting men do all the work
12. Not touching him directly or avoiding the penis
13. Being too rough with the penis or testicles
14. Scraping his penis with her teeth during a blowjob
15. Acting like semen is toxic
16. Stopping stroking before he’s done during a hand job
17. Scratching and clawing with sharp fingernails
18. Staying silent during sex
19. Faking orgasms
20. Mentioning past lovers
Men
1. Not making an effort
2. Poor personal hygiene or not shaving
3. Bragging about your sexual skills
4. Not enough kissing and foreplay before sex
5. Giving hickeys
6. Ignoring the other parts of her body
7. Nudging her head down for oral sex
8. Using your hands to move her head up and down during a blow job
9. Thrusting while she gives you oral sex
10. Not warning her when you are about to cum during oral sex
11. Not kissing after oral sex
12. Not offering to return sexual favours
13. Squeezing her breasts too hard
14. Begging
15. Impatience
16. Attacking the clitoris or not paying enough attention to it
17. Not paying attention to her needs
18. Mentioning past lovers
19. Attempting anal sex and pretending it was an accident
20. Taking direction too personally
21. Being distracted during lovemaking
22. Cumming too soon or taking too long to orgasm
23. Asking their partners if they’ve orgasmed yet
24. Asking if it was good
25. Not snuggling, rushing to the shower or leaving immediately after sex
July 2nd, 2008 at 2:26 am
This calls for Captain Obvious!
Didn’t learn anything I didn’t know.
Because all of that (above) is covered by common sense.
Sheesh.
July 2nd, 2008 at 8:42 am
Good for you. Sadly, common sense ain’t so common. I’ve had sins 4, 6, 13, 16 and 24 committed against me more than a few times…
July 2nd, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Won’t cuddle afer sex.
July 2nd, 2008 at 4:59 pm
As a married female who wants it ALL the time, I have to say that not being willing to trying new things is at the top of my list! Variety is the spice of life!
July 2nd, 2008 at 7:27 pm
Guilty of at least a couple of them, but we’re all not perfect.
Ladies, really consider 4, 6 and 18 as especially problematic. Using sex as a tool to get what one wants or as a one-way gratification mechanism (and this goes for men as well) is a very bad idea.
Lastly, can I suggest we all just play more?
July 9th, 2008 at 2:34 am
LOL!!! All I can say to ALL of THAT. Somewhat true, but then who is perfect among either of the sexes? You have to communicate whether it is by voice or moans of pain and sadness - have to let the other party know what is going on at that moment, right?
Hope so,
Lynn
July 11th, 2008 at 6:36 am
Umm, lots of these are only aplicable for vanilla sex, in relationship sex etc…
I love it when a guy holds my head while I blow him (lyn)
and
I love being scraped with nails… and underarm hair on a girl (tray)
We read this together and laughed. Are you 15 years old?
July 11th, 2008 at 8:35 am
It was a survey done on the web of the most common sexual mistakes, not my personal opinion…
July 16th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
Sorry, I LOVE it when my man thrusts during oral sex, AND when he moves my head. Very erotic and yummy!! Not shaving?! I assume this refers to the face, and I like to see him unshaven; makes him look dark and dangerous. And call me freaky (don’t care) but I enjoy my husband’s natural odor. He doesn’t get it, but I do. Makes giving him a BJ even more delectable. If the odor is a bit strong, I do tell him, not for me but for those around him. Now, if he goes down, then he knows to shave. What’s wrong with asking if I’ve orgasmed??!! As for the hickeys, I don’t mind them as long as they’re not visible;) Who answered these questions? I’m sure we’ve done these things once or twice (I have) but to call them mistakes? What some call mistakes I call necessary.
July 22nd, 2008 at 7:12 pm
my heart goes out to you anne.
we’ve all been there.
LOL
July 23rd, 2008 at 4:08 am
do u get free johnnies from durex anne?
hook me up!
August 7th, 2008 at 3:33 am
why does one have to moan or make noises? you wouldn’t want anyone to hear you do it!