Finding the G-Spot
Scientists and sex experts may argue over the existence of the G-Spot, but for a lot of women, there is no doubt that a sensitive area on the front wall of their vaginas is capable of giving great pleasure.
Generally speaking the G-Spot is about a third of the way up the vaginal opening. According to Dr Ernst Grafenberg who first described it, it is not necessarily a spot but an area through which a woman’s prostate can be reached.
Unlike the clitoris, the G-spot can be tricky to locate and doesn’t always respond to stimulation. For most women this area is not sensitive until she is already very aroused, so honing in on it at the start of foreplay isn’t a man’s best bet. Sometimes it’s more likely to react to stimulation if a woman has already had one orgasm. Also if you are both focused on finding the G-spot instead of enjoying all the pleasurable possibilities of the vagina, this pressure may make finding it all the more tricky.
Before you begin, the woman should empty her bladder as stimulating this area may make her feel like she needs to pee. You should choose a position that’s comfortable such as a big chair, with the man placed in front of her. This way you’ll have easy access to her clit and vagina with your mouth and hands.
Start about two centimeters up making “come here” motions with your fingers against her vagina and press firmly moving your way up. You’re looking for an area that is either swollen or a different texture.
If you are having difficulty finding the G-spot, or if your partner is unsure she even has one, it might be a good idea to try a vibrator that’s dedicated to G-spot stimulation such as the Durex Play Wand. But even if you don’t succeed, you should have a lot of fun searching!
Nonsense. Women don’t have a prostate gland, for one thing.
Whether women have orgasms is debatable; a female orgasm could not be similar to a male orgasm, for women do not ejaculate, and ejaculation is the trigger to the male orgasm.
Hey Mel
There is a lot of disagreement over the existence of the G-spot and female ejaculation. Here’s the most commonly accepted view:
The G-spot is thought to be either a bundle of nerves or a series of glands, called the paraurethral glands or Skene’s glands. Post-mortem studies show the tissue from Skene’s glands to be similar to the prostate. According to the good Dr Grafenberg, that’s what the G-spot is – the female equivalent of the prostate. Female ejaculate is believed to either be fluid from Skene’s gland or plasma.
But what do you mean that it’s debatable whether or not women have orgasms? With the right amount of foreplay, care and attention, most women can orgasm
ok point of order, have you yourself found the g-spot and *ahem* what did it do for ya?
Was this a long winded way of working in a mention a certain product manufactured by a certain prophylatic company?
what sex toys do you recommend mark
Oddly enough Peter, your ma.
Hey Peter
Actually I was very suspicious about the existence of the G-spot for a long time, but I think that was because I thought it would react like a clitoris…
All I can say is that vigorous stimulation in that area can cause me to orgasm really intensely and occasionally ejacualate.
Hi Mark
Nope. Durex don’t pay me, HP does.
wowzers.
note to self, try and convince other half of merits of ‘investigating’ the issue.
C’mon Anne….the denial would be a lot more plausible if it wasn’t underneath a big pink banner that says “Durex Sexton on Sex”.
While I’m here….my boy friend says you can’t get pregnant standing up but I haven’t had a period, like, ever…and I’m 25….should I only take the morning after pill every second day?
…..and my willy curves to the left a bit….is that normal?
Seriously Evil… HP has some sponsorship thang with them, but I don’t. I get nada…
Thats terrible Anne, you should definately have some sponsors at this stage. I could be your agent for 10% commission. Were talking major deals with Durex, Anne Summers, Agent Provac and the bunny from duracell.
Thanks JBW! Get cracking!
cool il meet you in Rolys so you can sign your life away!
The gspot is between Dublin and Kerry - I drive there all the time.
going to give this a shot tonight I think. will report back tomorrow..My girlfriend might just have grown teeth on her vagina and taken my fingers off though…we will see!!!