The blowjob is a play in three acts – arousal, increasing excitement by finding a rhythm and orgasm. As promised on Red FM’s Victor Barry show, here are some ideas to try.

• Flicker sensitive spots with your tongue.
• Press your tongue flat against the head.
• Alternate between long slow licks and faster ones.
• Pucker up and use your lips and tongue along the shaft. Add a bit of suction if you want.
• Open your mouth and keep your tongue flat. Slide him in, wrap your lips around him and suck slowly.
• Tease him by running his head around your lips, sucking the tip gently and repeat.
• Pull him in by moving your lips forward and back, taking in a bit more each time.

Learning to use your hand in tandem with your mouth is crucial for most girls. Experiment and find the moves that work best for you both.

• Try wrapping your hand around his penis, with your index finger and thumb meeting at the top. Move your hand up and down with your lips following your hand.
• Try long and short stokes.
• Vary your suction – try increasing the suction on either the up or down stokes.
• Create suction on the head and move your hand up and down.
• Try a slight swivelling motion with your head during oral. Just a slight turn of the neck is all that’s needed.
• Twist your hand as you move up and down.

When your partner is bucking and grinding he’s close to orgasm. Whatever you do, don’t stop! If he is thrusting too much and you’re worried about your gag reflex, hold onto his hips or ass, or hold the base of his penis so you can control the amount of thrusting.

Gagging
If you gag, you gag. It’s not the best feeling, but not the end of the world. Relax and carry on. These tricks all help.
• Alternate between using your mouth for deep and swallow strokes.
• Stop and use your hands for a while until the urge to gag has passed.
• Breathe steadily through your nose.

Other Hints
Sit your man on the side of the bed or in a chair when giving oral, or do it while your man is standing up. It’s a great view for the man and the feeling of dominance is very powerful.

You can also try angling a mirror, looking him in the eyes or wearing red lipstick while giving head. Men are visual creatures.

Afterwards, don’t immediately stop. For some men, the head of the penis is very sensitive after ejaculation, so continue even after he has reached his orgasm. Try not to make any disgusting faces. Show him how much you enjoyed the encounter with a wicked smile.

Drink crème de menthe before giving your partner a blowjob. The mint creates a tingling sensation on the penis and disguises the taste of sperm afterwards.

A strong flavoured mint will have the same effect. Suck on the mint until it is almost gone and then get to work.

Durex have a minty lubricant called Tingle. This can be used on both men and women. The lubricant reproduces the effect of a really strong mint sensation.

The Angle of the Dangle
A blowjob is not just a blowjob. A lot can depend on how both parties are positioned.

The adventurous girl (or guy) should try lying on the bed with her head on the edge. The man stands next to the bed and straddles his partner’s head.

If the man is very tall, or your bed is very low, you’ll need some pillows to get this right, otherwise it’s murder on the neck.

Once you have the penis in your mouth, you still have two free hands so use them! One hand can be used to stimulate his balls, perineum and ass. The other can be used to play with yourself.

This angle is great because it combines two of men’s great loves – watching a woman giving them a blowjob and watching a woman masturbate. Two for the price of one!

Blowjob Cheat
Some girls do, and some girls don’t. If you are one of the many girls who aren’t that keen on a mouthful of cum when you go down, you have a couple of options. Either switch to your hand just before the crucial moment or try this. Towards the end of a blowjob, focus on the sensitive frenulum, just beneath the head of the penis while cradling the penis with your hand. Use lots of saliva, or a flavoured lube. Use your tongue for all it’s worth, like you are sharing a steamy snog with this part of his penis, not actually sucking it and occasionally fill your hand with your hot steamy breath. The trick is to use hand, mouth, tongue and breath to create a warm, wet, steamy sensation so that there is no abrupt stop just as he cums.

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