Comments on: I want one of these! http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/ Hot Press' sex columnist Anne Sexton on XXX Thu, 28 Aug 2008 23:35:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=wordpress-mu-1.2.5 By: PeterW http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-35 PeterW Fri, 07 Mar 2008 12:54:38 +0000 http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-35 'em does it make the same noise as luke skywalker's? cause that'd be cool. ‘em does it make the same noise as luke skywalker’s? cause that’d be cool.

]]> By: annesexton http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-32 annesexton Thu, 06 Mar 2008 13:34:59 +0000 http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-32 Ok, here's what I'd suggest. Wait until you've been together at least a month or six weeks. Then the first toy you introduce needs to be a clitoral stimulator -- small, discreet and doesn't look like a replacement penis. You don't want to scare him or make hm feel inadequate. What I think you should do is haul it out and say you got it a while ago as a gift (Kris Kindle, on a hen night or something) and you thought it might be fun to try it out together. A clit stimulator can be used on a guy as well. Try using it on the balls or along the penis when giving him a handjob/blowjob. Then get him to use it on you. Pull out all your best moves this evening so he really has a great time. If this is a success, a few weeks later you can tell him that since you both enjoy the clit stimulator you decided it might be fun to try a few new toys together. Try a masturbation sleeve for him and a proper vibe for you. Hopefully by this stage he should be a fan of toys and not object. Hope this helps. Let me know how you get on. Good luck! Anne Ok, here’s what I’d suggest.

Wait until you’ve been together at least a month or six weeks. Then the first toy you introduce needs to be a clitoral stimulator — small, discreet and doesn’t look like a replacement penis. You don’t want to scare him or make hm feel inadequate.

What I think you should do is haul it out and say you got it a while ago as a gift (Kris Kindle, on a hen night or something) and you thought it might be fun to try it out together.

A clit stimulator can be used on a guy as well. Try using it on the balls or along the penis when giving him a handjob/blowjob. Then get him to use it on you. Pull out all your best moves this evening so he really has a great time.

If this is a success, a few weeks later you can tell him that since you both enjoy the clit stimulator you decided it might be fun to try a few new toys together. Try a masturbation sleeve for him and a proper vibe for you.

Hopefully by this stage he should be a fan of toys and not object.

Hope this helps. Let me know how you get on.
Good luck!

Anne

]]> By: anna http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-31 anna Thu, 06 Mar 2008 12:20:17 +0000 http://wordpress.hotpress.com/annesexton/2008/03/04/i-want-one-of-these/#comment-31 ok. here's conundrum that i've yet to solve... At what point in a starting to see someone thing can you start suggesting that you introduce your sex toys into the equation. I'm not averse to the male appendage, but it doesn't always push the right buttons for me, and to be honest, can end up being a slightly frustrating experience. so how do you say, "see thing thing here, if while we're having sex we can use this too it'll push me over a cliff" without actually hurting feelings etc etc etc, ok. here’s conundrum that i’ve yet to solve…
At what point in a starting to see someone thing can you start suggesting that you introduce your sex toys into the equation. I’m not averse to the male appendage, but it doesn’t always push the right buttons for me, and to be honest, can end up being a slightly frustrating experience.

so how do you say, “see thing thing here, if while we’re having sex we can use this too it’ll push me over a cliff” without actually hurting feelings etc etc etc,

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