I want one of these!
Check out this super slick looking sex toy. The Sabar is the creation of Michael Young, an industrial designer. As far as functionality goes, the Sabar is doesn’t sounds as impressive as it looks – simply hit a switch for more or less vibrations. But damn, it does look good.
March 6th, 2008 at 12:20 pm
ok. here’s conundrum that i’ve yet to solve…
At what point in a starting to see someone thing can you start suggesting that you introduce your sex toys into the equation. I’m not averse to the male appendage, but it doesn’t always push the right buttons for me, and to be honest, can end up being a slightly frustrating experience.
so how do you say, “see thing thing here, if while we’re having sex we can use this too it’ll push me over a cliff” without actually hurting feelings etc etc etc,
March 6th, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Ok, here’s what I’d suggest.
Wait until you’ve been together at least a month or six weeks. Then the first toy you introduce needs to be a clitoral stimulator — small, discreet and doesn’t look like a replacement penis. You don’t want to scare him or make hm feel inadequate.
What I think you should do is haul it out and say you got it a while ago as a gift (Kris Kindle, on a hen night or something) and you thought it might be fun to try it out together.
A clit stimulator can be used on a guy as well. Try using it on the balls or along the penis when giving him a handjob/blowjob. Then get him to use it on you. Pull out all your best moves this evening so he really has a great time.
If this is a success, a few weeks later you can tell him that since you both enjoy the clit stimulator you decided it might be fun to try a few new toys together. Try a masturbation sleeve for him and a proper vibe for you.
Hopefully by this stage he should be a fan of toys and not object.
Hope this helps. Let me know how you get on.
Good luck!
Anne
March 7th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
‘em does it make the same noise as luke skywalker’s? cause that’d be cool.